'Won't you kiss her?' asked Alice.'You haven't kissed her yet, and she is used to so much affection.'
'I don't think I could take such an advantage of her,' I said.
They looked at each other, and Mrs.Farnham said that I was plainly worn out.I mustn't sit up to prayers.
If I had been given anything like reasonable time I might have made a fight for it, but four weeks--it took a month each way in those days--was too absurdly little; I could do nothing.But I would not stay at mamma's.It was more than I would ask of myself, that daily disappointment under the mask of gratified discovery, for long.
I spent an approving, unnatural week, in my farcical character, bridling my resentment and hiding my mortification with pretty phrases; and then I went up to town and drowned my sorrows in the summer sales.I took John with me.I may have been Cecily's mother in theory, but I was John's wife in fact.
We went back to the frontier, and the regiment saw a lot of service.
That meant medals and fun for my husband, but economy and anxiety for me, though I managed to be allowed as close to the firing line as any woman.
Once the Colonel's wife and I, sitting in Fort Samila, actually heard the rifles of a punitive expedition cracking on the other side of the river--that was a bad moment.My man came in after fifteen hours' fighting, and went sound asleep, sitting before his food with his knife and fork in his hands.But service makes heavy demands besides those on your wife's nerves.We had saved two thousand rupees, I remember, against another run home, and it all went like powder, in the Mirzai expedition; and the run home diminished to a month in a boarding-house in the hills.
Meanwhile, however, we had begun to correspond with our daughter, in large round words of one syllable, behind which, of course, was plain the patient guiding hand of Aunt Emma.One could hear Aunt Emma suggesting what would be nice to say, trying to instil a little pale affection for the far-off papa and mamma.There was so little Cecily and so much Emma--of course, it could not be otherwise--that I used to take, I fear, but a perfunctory joy in these letters.
When we went home again I stipulated absolutely that she was to write to us without any sort of supervision--the child was ten.
'But the spelling!' cried Aunt Emma, with lifted eyebrows.
'Her letters aren't exercises,' I was obliged to retort; 'she will do the best she can.'
We found her a docile little girl, with nice manners, a thoroughly unobjectionable child.I saw quite clearly that I could not have brought her up so well; indeed, there were moments when I fancied that Cecily, contrasting me with her aunts, wondered a little what my bringing up could have been like.With this reserve of criticism on Cecily's part, however, we got on very tolerably, largely because I found it impossible to assume any responsibility towards her, and in moments of doubt or discipline referred her to her aunts.We spent a pleasant summer with a little girl in the house whose interest in us was amusing, and whose outings it was gratifying to arrange; but when we went back, I had no desire to take her with us.
I thought her very much better where she was.
Then came the period which is filled, in a subordinate degree, with Cecily's letters.I do not wish to claim more than I ought; they were not my only or even my principal interest in life.It was a long period; it lasted till she was twenty-one.John had had promotion in the meantime, and there was rather more money, but he had earned his second brevet with a bullet through one lung, and the doctors ordered our leave to be spent in South Africa.We had photographs, we knew she had grown tall and athletic and comely, and the letters were always very creditable.I had the unusual and qualified privilege of watching my daughter's development from ten to twenty-one, at a distance of four thousand miles, by means of the written word.I wrote myself as provocatively as possible; I sought for every string, but the vibration that came back across the seas to me was always other than the one I looked for, and sometimes there was none.Nevertheless, Mrs.Farnham wrote me that Cecily very much valued my communications.Once when I had described an unusual excursion in a native state, I learned that she had read my letter aloud to the sewing circle.After that I abandoned description, and confined myself to such intimate personal details as no sewing circle could find amusing.The child's own letters were simply a mirror of the ideas of the Farnham ladies; that must have been so, it was not altogether my jaundiced eye.Alice and Emma and grandmamma paraded the pages in turn.I very early gave up hope of discoveries in my daughter, though as much of the original as I could detect was satisfactorily simple and sturdy.I found little things to criticize, of course, tendencies to correct; and by return post I criticized and corrected, but the distance and the deliberation seemed to touch my maxims with a kind of arid frivolity, and sometimes I tore them up.One quick, warm-blooded scolding would have been worth a sheaf of them.My studied little phrases could only inoculate her with a dislike for me without protecting her from anything under the sun.
However, I found she didn't dislike me, when John and I went home at last to bring her out.She received me with just a hint of kindness, perhaps, but on the whole very well.
